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6 Quran Verses and Hadiths to Get You Through Hardship

by in Soul on 28th August, 2018

Having that void in your heart can be painful. The one that doesn’t quite feel right-  like something is missing, but you just can’t seem to put your finger on what, it is borderline painful. I felt it too. Days pass by, you don’t like to see or be around family or friends, you can’t focus at work, you don’t quite feel like eating anything. Depression? Anxiety? No no, It is a disease and needs to be treated, but not a tangible disease, no, it is a spiritual one.  It is worth stating that with any other illness there is never shame in seeking professional help, professionals that are well equipped in understanding spirituality are exactly the same as a physician or doctor they are there to help and remedy the sickness.

If anyone tells you they never had this feeling, I would argue that they are clearly in denial. I say this because I have full confidence that it is completely normal for humans so fragile in our condition, to go through spiritual turmoil. It may even be easy to advise others when they experience is, but when you go through it personally, it feels excruciating and near impossible to follow your own advice. I knew, what I was supposed to do, but somehow wasn’t able to follow it through. Being around family members, going out with friends for a cup of coffee, chilling with cousins would make me feel lighter and better- but I chose not to. I chose not to be around family, I chose to refuse calls from friends and cousins, who wanted to hang out, I chose not to focus on my work.  I chose to be in my room with windows and doors closed, I chose to be in a pin drop silent zone, phone on silent mode, I chose not to see anyone, I chose silence, I chose isolation. I chose not to share how I was feeling with anyone else. Watching something on my laptop distracted my mind only for a little while, but I chose not to. Eating my favourite chocolate didn’t give me any pleasure either. Sleeping late night, soaking the pillow with tears was not lightening the burden I was carrying within my little heart. Days went by, nothing changed. The feeling kept getting worse.

Then it happened, an epiphany that was so obvious staring at me blankly in the face but it took me almost losing myself to truly see it. I had to change. I knew this ayat for a while, but it made sense to me later when I realised what I was doing was not nourishing me. Being in a dark situation is painful. I had to find a solution and try what was needed to fix my problem.  I chose Allah (SWT). He is the one who can change the hearts of people- He is Al Muhyiy (The Giver of Life). I saw the people around me, I heard real-life stories, I saw the struggles and then I decided to change.

Here are 5 Ayahs to get you through hardship:

1. You may hate a thing that is good for you

I was convinced by the ayat that says: “You may dislike something although it is good for you, or like something, although it is bad for you” – Qur’an (2:216)

The only thing that was steady during this awful time was my prayers, even after all those feelings of loss; I kept up with my prayers. I didn’t let that go because deep down I knew the tough days would pass by the help of Allah (SWT). I knew He would guide me- He is Al Hadiy and Ar Rashid. I knew He loved people who were committed to Him. “God loves those who are steadfast” – Qur’an (3:146) I prayed at home, and then slowly- at a snail’s pace, I started going out to the mosque. Deep down, I knew Allah (SWT) tests whom He loves and clearly He was testing me because He loves me. The thing I hated, that pain that sorrow and darkness, lead me to be closer to him, those dark days brought me the greatest gift.

2. If you believe you will be tested

I kept reminding myself about the ayat: “Do people think they will be left alone after saying ‘We believe’ without being put to the test?” – Qur’an (29:2)

Being alone has its perk, it allows you to reflect on what has happened in your life, and how you can preclude from similar situations in the future. It gives you time with your Creator- Al Khaliq. It helped me to connect and strive to get closer to Allah (SWT). I forced myself to get out of the house and walk down to the mosque. I spent time with beautiful sisters, whom I never met but connected instantly. Every soul had a story to share. Everyone was going through something. Everyone was asking Allah (SWT) for help. The lady in the mosque who was in tears for the whole duration of the prayer, even after Salat she couldn’t stop herself. She was in pain, a lot of pain. I did not ask her what she was going through, but I knew she was in the right place to ask for help. She cried to the One who could help her, the One who’s House she was in making prayers in. A believer of His Might, was being tested in front of my eyes, testimony to the ayah that warns us we will be tested the closer we get to Him, and know this is a testimony to His promise if He loves us, He will test us.


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 3. He never burdens a soul beyond what it can bare

Allah (SWT) never burdens a soul more than it can bear. I was assured, I could bear the pain I was feeling because He told me, I could. “God does not burden any soul with more than it can bear” – Qur’an (2:286)

During the winter nights, I saw an aged man lying on the sidewalk covered head to toe with heavy blankets, he was shivering as the winds blew around him. He was repeating “Cup of Coffee, please? thirsty and freezing. I did not know his story, but the state he was in was painful. He did not have a roof above him, nor did he have food to eat, nor was by any loved one. He was there, all alone- in pain. He was given that test for whatever reason, and I was given my test for whatever reason because he can weather his storm, and I can weather mine because Allah decided our souls were built to carry our own burdens.

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4. If Allah desires good for someone he faces hardship

Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “When Allah (SWT) desires good for someone, He tries him with hardships.” – Sahih al-Bukhari

I met a beautiful sister who was a revert, who had to come to Islam after many difficulties- her family was deeply opposed to the changes she had undergone, they did not accept her religion, she didn’t have any support from her close ones, she was ridiculed and jeered at while she walked in her neighbourhood when she chose to cover herself. She was doing a noble thing, an honourable act, trying to please her creator, so how can Allah be punishing her for trying? My perspective on trials and pain was slowly changing, if a servant is trying in any capacity to please Allah, whatever comes of it, will be good for them.

5. The prophets are tested the most

Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I said: “O Messenger of Allah, which of the people are most sorely tested?” He said: “The Prophets, then the next best and the next best. A man will be tested in accordance with his level of religious commitment. If his religious commitment is strong, he will be tested more severely, and if his religious commitment is weak, he will be tested in accordance with his religious commitment. Calamity will keep befalling a person until he walks on the earth with no sin on him.” – Sahih at-Tirmidhi

6. Allah does not change your condition until you change

He is Al Wakil. “God does not change the condition of a people unless they change what is in themselves” – Qur’an (13:11)

I chose to make a change in my day to day life, what I was doing,  what I was eating, thinking, reading and so on. I started spending time with family. I went for long walks in the park with my friends. I Started dining out at my favourite places with my cousins. My heart was opening up, and it was beautiful for those who surrounded me to see and experience. I started to read and seek more knowledge, my heart opened more. I kept my prayers steady and volunteered at the mosque more regularly. I had to strive to change myself in order for Allah (SWT) to help me become the best version of myself, in order to feel good inside and content. I put the efforts in first, and all the rest was being sorted out by Allah (SWT). I just had to trust Him

It is only upon on individual to decide what they want. It is for us to choose what we want in life. Either we choose happiness or sadness. If we want to be happy, then we must change what is within ourselves by our actions every single day, no let ups. Small and consistent steps are what will piece together bit by bit your happiness, as happiness is not served on a plate. You earn happiness. You work for it. Having a content life is what every individual desires, and that requires a lot of work, work that has to be consistent. It is an ongoing process, which needs to be monitored and nurtured all the time. “Our Lord, give us good in this World and in the Hereafter, and protect us from the torment of the Fire” – Qur’an (2:201) We must ponder over Allah’s wisdom in which He tests His chosen slaves, He guides and directs us to achieve goals to reach a high rank in His eyes, which would not be possible or achieved without a lifetime of tests, trials, and tribulations. Tests and tribulations are in fact, all mercy’s and blessings from Allah (SWT). Alhamdulillah, for tests and tribulations.

Shazia Chowdhury

Shazia Chowdhury

Shazia Chowdhury is a student of the Qur’an and Sunnah and loves to share beneficial knowledge and voices out her personal insights to connect with people. Produced her first- Ramadan Booklet in 2018. Founder of an NGO, which helps the poor to live life healthier and happier. On a side- she adores being a foodie, an explorer as well as a nature lover!